the truth (even tho it might hurt)  / Shorty (every day friend(rain or shine) )
bobbo,
       i've tryed everything, everything i can think of but i just cant stop,stop regreting that night, i wish so mush, i wish u'd have stayed, stayed and and smoked stayed and chilled just stayed

               but i dont need to talk about that i'd rather talk about all the wonderfull times you,sari,mike and i had all thowes nights we all played dominos or cards(weed)or just chilled. all the times we went to the park but i need you to let everyone know, know it was u, u could have stayed at our house or porkeys house but you dident please i'm tired of people fighting and blaming. and let everyone know if  itwouldent of happend u'd still be here and ud still be w/ sari. because u 2 would always be togther.  threw the fighting and pissing(lol) and all the beer it was always clear u 2 did love each other(in your own way)and u both love Elli. all the rummers going around about sari i know there not true because YOU WOULDENT LET NONE OF THEM HAPPEN.  if any one has anything to say about this matter come and talke to me because mike and i were w/  u and  sari every day and we were all best friends(all on the same team, the tit team)   ................................ Close

all bobbo friend  / Mommy
this is for all bobbo friend. please feel free to call me or come visit me and john you kids are like my own. i need you to help me through this we all are having a bad time. bobbo didnt need to die. we need to poll all together . i love you all selma (Mom) Close

My sincerest condolences  / Blanca Gammons (visitor)
Selma Flynn, Thank you for visiting my son's memorial site.  I can so understand you pain.  The only advise I can give you is this:

It is God's love passing through our hearts that makes life count and leads us on to Heaven.

So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen.  For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.  2 Corinthians 4:18 NIV...

You have not lost your son, but he has transended and crossed the mysteries of life... Sit silent and still and you will receive subtle messages from him letting you know he is alright.  We come to this world to learn and to teach others. By Bobbo's death, there are others that will learn from him.  Be strong for him and allow his death to have some meaning.  He is not gone but only in the physical.  He is energy around you and yours.  That is how my Jonathan is to me.   We need to be strong that is what both Bobbo and Jonathan would have wanted.  I will keep you in my prayers and as God to watch over you and help you during these very difficult times.  Love... God Bless... Blanca Close

Sorry about your loss!!  / Amy Day (Friend)
I am so sorry for your loss of your son,uncle,brother and anyhting else this young man was too anyone. I know how you all feel, I lost my Sis, in June of 2004, too Domestic Voilence and her husband was a arrested for it, we start our court hearing this Thursday July 21-22, PLEASE keep us in your prayers. Ann~ Was a beautiful young woman, 34, mother of 2 children. I am now raising her son. ALL MY PRAYERS GO OUT TOO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. Please, pray for us over the next couple of days the trail will be hard. Give your kids hugs and kisses as much as you can. Love, Amy Day Close

My heart goes out to you  / Sarah Burns (Visitor)


You visited my sons website and left a lovely message, thankyou. It has been almost 8 months sinse Matthew went Home and still not a day goes by where I dont think of him and miss him, Im sure you are the same with Bobbo. It hurts so much to lose a child, no pain cant ever come close to it and there are no words I or anybody else can say to make you feel better or make this ok. We just have to carry on as best we can and get through this life in the knowledge that one day we will be with our babies again.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Another grieving mum xx

“When I come to the end of the road and the sun has set for me. I want no nights in a gloom – filled room, why cry for a soul set free? Miss me a little but not too long, and not with your head bowed low. Remember the love that we once shared, miss me… but let me go. For this is a journey we all must take, and each must go alone. It’s all a part of the Masters plan, a step on the road to home. When you are lonely and sick of heart, go to the friends we know. And bury your sorrow in doing good deeds, miss me… but let me go”

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Ok, Riddle me this?  / Katie Tolliver (Friend)
Bobby?
 
    You here?  Ok well if not now, I know you will be checking in to see what's going on.   I tried to do what I could so your mom and dad could talk to Ellie on your Mom's B-day, with no luck.  Sari, is on the run again......*sigh*  watch her close Bobby, make sure she takes care of them kids, till the right thing is done.  Why would anyone want to continue to pour salt in the wounds of the people that love you, and claim to have loved you or even cared about you, I'll tell you why I think, be it right or wrong, because she is a selfish little BITCH.  I really have tried the best I could not to sling dirt at her, but she keeps doing dirty things!  What is it that she hopes to prove?  I mean, anyone with half a brain would know that the more people that love and nourish your children with that love, the better people they become.  But NO!  not Sari, she wants to keep running and keep her children away from a family that loves her and needs her.  You know why?  I think I know why, because Sari is a Drama Queen, and she likes all this attention..... you see for a nasty ass hoe that trys to be the shit, negative attention is better than none at all, that would be why she had to sleep with half the frekkin town, because she has no sefl-esteem, feels like the piece of shit that she is, and needs attention to make her feel like something..... anything.   
      I'll never understand, they say that oppisites attract, and with the two of you it is proof.  You were kind, loving and happy, She is mean, hateful and miserable.  You were full of life, She can only know death at this point.  You were warm and bright, she is cold and dark, never in my life have I seen 2 people be more opposite.  Never in my life no matter who tries to explain will I see what you seen in such a bucket of shit..... but that was you, no matter how bad something was you always found good.
If only hindesight was 20/20........I miss you!

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Gentle Hugs  / Nancy (Tracy's Mom) (just another grieving mom )
Dear Selma,
           Thank you for visiting my daughter's website today...in 2 days it will be one year since she left us. Today I'm hurting so & to have you reach out when your own loss is so recent is a comfort. My daughter was ill & took her own life but she was also in an emotionally abusive marriage. I believe if not for my son-in-law she would have recovered & still be here with us today. So I understand the anger a person can feel...I still do.
 
We each have to grieve on our own timetable & our feelings are just that ours so if others don't like it so be it. We do what we have to just to get through each day.

What a wonderful tribute to your son this website is...the love your family & friends share for each other shines through.

Keeping you in my thoughts & prayers,
Nancy

http://tracyweinshrott-richards.memory-of.com

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mrs.selma / Shorty (friends)
dear selma, i' m sorry i havent been out to see you but mike cant bear it.but the reason i wright is to tell you to keep your head up high,and i'm always thinking about you and ellie  and most of all bobbo.i'm so sorry this had to be this way.you really are a hero in my eyes,you've been throw so much this past year. you have to be so strong.
                    also, i wanted to tell you... bobbo always talked about how much he worried about you and big john, he always said "i dont know what i'd do without my mom and dad"or when ever we picked him up from your house he'd say" my mom knows how much i love them".and i remember when he told us about you beating sari up( riping her shirt) he thought i was the funnyest thing that ever happend(you know bobbo) wall i better leave room for others. i'll talk to you soon,(and if by any chance you take to him let him know we miss himsoo much).    Close

I am truly sorry  / Hazel Lee
Hi,Ms.Selma you wrote on my nieces web-site( Jaime Lee Sweatman). It is very hard to get through this it's something you never get over you just learn to live with.Jaime had a suv and over corrected & lost control she just left my driveway and maybe got a quarter of a mile. My sister had Jaime at 18 and I was 14 so Jaime was like mine,too.It is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. My sister speaks at schools to help teenagers on saftey issues and she is involved in a Mothers Support Group. It may be to early for you but being around other Mothers who have lost children has helped her b/c they can relate to each others feelings. I will keep you and your family in my prayers (honestly) I know alot of times thats said out of habit but if it wasn't for Jesus and me on my knees through out the day I don't know where I would be.Jesus is my best friend and he will never leave you or forsake you. Close

belly-butt and jabek  / Mommy
well bobbo it is 1030 pm i was hoping sari would find in she heart to call me today so i could talk to the kids on my bday but she dont so bobbo it was very hard because you(CANT BE HERE)but sari but that is not reason why sari cant have call. i love sweet baby boy Close

Saddness / Laura Koehler
I did not know "Bobbo" but I am saddened to hear of the loss of a young one. His mother had visited my brother's site and left a tribute so I'm doing the same. My brother was killed in a car accident last October and the pain to this day is still so unbearable. I am only 22 and am not a mother so I cannot say I feel your pain but I do feel the pain of missing my older brother. Please know that, one day, you will be able to say youre 'okay''. You will never forget your son, as I will never forget my brother, but we go on because we know it's what they would've wanted. Thank you for your tribute on my brothers' site. It truely means alot to have people who didnt know show how they care. Close

bluebirds / Mommy
my sweet baby boy aunt joann bring me two new bird feeder today so i have alot if bird in the yard they are so beautiful there is a blue bird family two big ones and 2 baby. i look at them all the time and think of you bobby i love you so much Close

issue on hate  / Sabrina
to whom it may concern hate is a natural instinct and a natural emotion who are you to tell someone after there child has been killed because some one he loves was in a home where they shouldnt have been and not at home where they should have been is they werent where they shouldnt have been bobbo would have never had to hunt for her and find her where she shouldnt have been and he would still be here today !! and dont tell us you know how we feel there is now way in this world you know how we feel unless youhave had a child ,brother,father,uncle,cousin killed be cause he loved some one so DONT EVEN GO THERE TO ASY YOU KNOW HOW WE FEEL !! if you were the mother of the child who was shot and killed you would have the same hate towards us as we do towards you and your family we not only lost bobby and ellie but yall wont let us see oscar either talk about spite !! theres no reason oscar should be kept from us!! yes i do have hate in my heart for sari but you would have hate for bobby if the roll was reversed!!! HAVE A NICE DAY!!! Close

mommy b-day  / Mommy
well baby today is my b-day it is going to be a very hard day for me today.bobby you have been here for 21 year for my b-day and today you arent here for me you always call mommy and told how you love you but i will not hear it today bobby word cant tell how i miss you i needed you so bad i need you hold you and kisses hug just one more time.. bobbo i know my little bluebird will be outside all day for me. bobbo i love you my sweet baby boy ps i cant even see betty-butt or even hear her said nana my heart is so broke Close

i should not hate  / Mommy
to my sweet baby boy i am sitting here crying like i do all the time and thinking bobby people say i am not right for hating like i do but i have the right to because it should not have happen. yes bobbo you should not have went in like you did but sari should not have been there at 300am kevin should not have shoot you 5 time. so the hole thing is my son is not here sari is in fla having a good time and hell kevin is out wakling the street people said they feel like i do. right there kids are alive. i lost you and belly- butt in one week but iam going to be happy.about it. everyone life is going on .my life is hell i cant sleep i cry all the time i think about you and belly-butt bobby my life will be hell untill the day i die bobbo i love you and i dont care if people thinks i should not hate Close

raining / Modesty
bobbo me and aaron was playing in the rain it was fun . wwe sew the rainrow.today is aaon bday he is 2 we are going to miss you are his party. so please come play too we will love to have you we love you and we miss you Close

God is with us  / Lori Kenney (friend of the website )
I am so very sorry for the loss of your son/brother. It is a tragedy when we loose our loved ones to such violence. I pray for your family.  Thank you for visiting my daughter Nicole's site.  You are so right when we receive support from others, it helps to deal with our loss that much more.

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted."   
                                                                  Matthew 5:4
The pain is unbearable, I know, but God will keep his promise to us.
May God bless your family.
with love,
Lori       Mommy to Nicole, 4/19/04-5/26/05
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always with thoughts  / Krista (F.O.F.)
Yeah, I know its late....but hey I know your a nite owl lol Bean stopped at work today and brought a few of your yearbooks. Im gonna try my best to enlarge them for your mom.  I hope they turn out great for her and i'll have them put on here very soon. And I forgot to call your dad back , so im sitting here feeling terrible for allowing myself to become to busy for a wonderful friend. I promise to call him as soon as I get to work! He misses you Bobbo, but has his own way of mourning you, Please touch his heart he needs to feel you near. The scholarship is going to take off! Every little donation will help another student just as special as you. Well i guess i better try to go to sleep now, have to be at work in 5  1/2 hours lol G-nite Bobbo, ttyl and I'll see ya at the crossroads! Close

bad weekend for mommy-mommy bday is sunday  / Mommy
well bobby the weekend is here boy it is going to be hard bobby you are going to look down on me aaron bday is today and mommy is sun bobby you are not here to cook for me baby it is so hard not having you here bobby wish it was a bad dream i will wake up and you would be here or the phone would ring and it would be you baby i miss you more and more everyday you are mommy heart and soul.i still cant beleave. you was killed over sari she is a bitch. she will burn in hell ilove you baby so please look down this weekend mommy need you. Close

Contempt / Katie Tolliver (Friend)
Bobby,
    Please help me to remove the contempt I have in my heart.  I know that nothing can bring you back to your family and friends, but it is growing more and more for the monsters that took your life.  I have so many questions, with no answers..........  Mostly all I can say is WOW.  How can any group of people with morals sit and watch someone get shot over and over again and not make any attempt to stop it.  I just wish one of them would have to balls to come on here and say, "you know what, I know it doesnt bring him back, but I am sorry".  To act in such a horrid manner and not feel any remorse makes them monsters, that we fear in the dark.  I wish for your family that someone who was suppose to love you with their heart would say, "yes I was wrong, I know you may never forgive me, but I am sorry, and I do miss him"  but of course we all know they cant say it, and mean it, so maybe it's better off left as it is.  But of a whole house full of people, not one of them that I know of has appoligized, what a scary place we live.  I feel for your family, not one bit of Ron being sentenced, brought Jeremy back, but at least there were some answers.  Never an appoligy but at least a understanding, not a positive but an understanding.  I dont know my heart breaks, not for you to be back, although that would be GREAT, but for those that love you, that are here on this earth.  There are so many of them feelings of contempt flooding my heart once again, I have some knowledge of what they are experiencing and it sux. Well I need your guidence to rid the negative, your smile, your easy going attitude............ a hand.
    I miss you, 
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