dont take long  / Mommy
sweet baby boy well bobby i have to tell you sari will burn in hell because josh called today and said sari has been seeing three guys she has been josh jumped and beat up by 3 men and she he him put in jail boy bobby dont take long for her to make josh live hell josh is taking care of belly-butt and jakeb just like you was doing well i just hope she dont killed josh like she did you josh said she is down there just having a good time going out every nite. staying out all nite just like she did with you bobby please look out for belly-butt it will not be long now. i just hope to god she dont hurt belly-butt. bobby i hate her more and more every day it is her fault you are not here if she was a good mother she would be at home not a some man house at 300am. i hope when she close she eyes at nite she sees you laying on the floor.bobby i am doing all i can it will take time but i think it will turn out ok so just keep your eyes on belly-butt for me i love you baby Close

Don't give up!!!  / Friendly Stranger
I just want Bobbo's parents to know... first & foremost... I am so sorry for your loss!  I also wanted you to that as for Sari leaving with your grandchild there is something you can do!  There is GRANDPARENTS RIGHTS... so talk to a lawyer!  I'm serious you have every right to that baby! Close

a mothers love  / Shelley Brown
To selma and her family I know what you feel, I know how hard it is and I wont lie the days ahead wont be easy, 7/13/05 was 3 months that my son Raland Brown was stolen from me all his potential taken over the need to possess a gun. I can say Im sorry to the family but that wont bring your precious son back, I just want you to know that this mother is here to talk to , to cry with , to help in anyway I can because unfortunately we have this pain to carry that never goes away. All I know that THose who did wrong to our boys will be punished!!!! Close

Ms. Flynn  / Brenda Mulberry

That you for the nice words you said to me when you visited my dad's site.  I am so sorry for your loss.

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just thinking of you  / Aunt Arlene
Bobby, I sit here and read all the letters everyone writes to you, I feel so bad for everyone who's missing you, I believe you are in a great place now, free of worry and pain, and joined by others who love you as much as we do, I still wish you were here with us, but its not us who desides who time it is, so unfortunately we have to live with that, i guess god has his reasons that we may not understand but someday we will realize what his plan is and that might make it a little easier to understand but until then we just have to go on, even though the pain don't seem to stop, we will always have the memories and thats a blessing. Well say hi to everyone for me, give them all my love. hugs and kisses. Close

A pain all too familiar  / Maria Boone (Visitor)
I lost my son Elijah as well (and as you already know).  The pain is too great to put into words.  Such a tragic loss to you and your family.  I want you to know that I appreciate you lighting a candle in memory of my Elijah and leaving your condolences.  As you know, it means a lot!!!  I will be keeping you in my thoughts. Close

HATE / Sabrina
BOBBY THERE IS SO MUCH HATE THAT CONSUMES MY HEART RIGHT NOW ! I KNOW IM NOT THE ONE THAT HAS THE RIGHT TO JUDGE! SO ILL LEAVE THAT TO OUR MAKER BECAUSE HE WILL TAKE CARE OF THEM IN THE END !! I KNOW WE NEED TO HEAL AND FORGIVE BUT ITS SO HARD ! I CAN NEVR FORGIVE SARI FOR WALKIN OUT ON YOU AFTER THE 1ST ! THEY COULD HAVE STOPPED HIM AND SAVED YOU BUT NOBODY STEPPED UP TO STOP HIM AND THATS HARD TO BELIEVE THAT ALL THOSE PEOPLE COULD STAND THERE AND WATCH KEVIN SHOOT YOU AND NEVER TRY TO STOP HIM !!THEY MAKE YOU OUT TO BE SO TERRIBLE !!! BUT ILL FIGHT WITH THESE PEOPLE TOOTH AND NAIL TO TRY TO CLEAR YOUR NAME!! IT WOUNT BRING YOU BACK ! BUT IT WILL SHOW PEOPLE YOU WERENT A BAD PERSON!! THE BAD PERSON WAS THE ONE WHO TOOK YOUR LIFE AWAY ! THEN RAN AND TOOK YOU DAUGHTER AWAY !! THE HATE FOR KEVIN WILL SLOWLY GO AWAY OVER TIME BECAUSE YOU CANT REALLY HATE SOME ONE YOU DONT KNOW AND HE COULD WALK UP AND SMACK ME AND I STILL WOULDNT KNOW WHO HE WAS !! BUT THE HATE I FEEL FOR SARI WILL NEVER LEAVE MY HEART AND IF SOMETHING WERE HAPPEN TO DADDY AND HE TAKES HIS LAST BREATH WITH OUT EVER SEEING ELIAUNA AGAIN I HOPE ALONG WITH YOU HAUNTING HER I BELIEIVE DADDY WILL HAUNT HER ALSO!! IF SHE WAS A REAL WOMAN SHE WOULD COME BACK AND FACE WHAT SHE DONE! ONLY THE GUILTY RUN ! IF SHE WASNT GUILY SHE WOULD HAVE STAYED AND DEFENDED HER SELF! AND IF SHE REALLY LOVED YOU LIKE SHE SAID SHE DID SHE WOULD HAVE MADE SURE KEVIN WAS PUT AWAY ! AND IF SHE HAD ANY LOVE OR COMPASSION IN HER HEART SHE WOULDNT HAVE TAKEN ELLIE AND JAKEB AWAY AT THE TIME MOMMY AND DADDY NEED THEM THE MOST ! SHES KEEPIN ALL THE STUFF OUT OF SPITE!!! SO SHE REALLY HAS ROOM TO TALK ABOUT US HATING HER WHEN SHES SHOWING AS MORE HATE TO US THAN WE EVER SHOWED TOWARDS HERE !! NOT ONLY DID SHE TAKE YOUR LIFE AWAY SHE TOOK ELLIE AND JAKEB AWAY AND SHE WONT EVEN GIVE US OSCAR WHAT THE HELL DOES SHE NEED OSCAR FOR WHEN SHES NOT EVEN HERE TO DO ANY THING FOR HIM !!! SHES LETTING PEOPLE WHOS SCREAMS AT HIM AND BEATS HIM TAKE CARE OF HIM ! MAKES YOU WONDER HOW SHES TREATIN YOU DAUGHTER DOESNT IT!!!???? IF SHE WILL LET SOMEONE TREAT SOME ONE YOU LOVED LIKE A SON LIKE THAT!!! WELL BOBBY I HAVE BITCHED ENOUGH IF ANY ONE HAS ISSUES AND WOULD LIKE TO TALK ABOUT IT PLEASE CALL ME 724 8660173!! I LOVE YOU BOBBY " VENGENCE IS MINE SO SAYITH THE LORD"" IF THEY WERE WRONG IN GOD EYES HE WILL PUNISH THEM!! Close

bluebird bath  / Mommy
hi baby aunt joann buy a bird tub today for my bluebird and boy he like playing in it . it is very hot today so the cold water fills good. bobbo i love you mommy is cooking for daddy i will see you later love you sweetbaby boy Close

sorry / Mitch Wilson (passer by )
hi bobby, your life was taken away from you so soon which should not have happen find my son michael and have a good time together  love to you and your family take care x x x x Close

May God Bring You Peace  / Lynda Simmons (Another grieving mom )
I am so sorry for your loss and pain.  I will pray for you and your family.  I pray that God will bring you peace and give you the strength you need to face each day.  I know how hard it is. Remember that the ultimate judge is the Lord in heaven and those who killed your son will have to answer to him when thier time comes.  Trust that you will be with your child again one day.  God Bless You~ Close

my heart is broke  / Mommy
bobby my sweet baby boy after reading the autopsy report my heart is broken more baby iam so sorry it was you baby iam sorry i was not would you to hold you to kiss to hug and to tell i love bobby iam so so sorry baby i love you so i hurt so bad you sould have not been killed i needed you but kevin and sari took you away from me and belly-butt bobby belly-butt loves you with all she heart. bobby sari took you away then she tookyour baby away from me too i lost my baby and i lost my baby too bobby iam so sorry i feel like it is my fault you are gone this is going to be a very bad week for mommy aaron bday is fri and mommy is sun and bobby you will not be here with me to cook for me and to tell me you love me bobby i miss you more and more every day they said it get easy but it is harder and harder for me if i could just hold you kiss you and hug you one more time my sweet baby boy I HATE SARI AND KEVIN FOR TAKE YOU AWAY FROM ME I HOPE THEY BURN IN HELL Close

just thinking about ya  / Krista (F.O.F.)
Hey Bobbo, bean stopped by and I read report.....just doesnt add up to me. You were too healthy to have had this happen to you. You had many more years to be with us on this earth. I know they say God has his reason for everything, but sometimes I have to question the reasoning for having to take a young person who has so much to offer and give to life. Its just something that will I will never understand. The whole situation scares the hell out of me, I dont know what I would do if (GOD FORBID) I lost Dev in any type of way. He's my world, just as you are your moms. Just as any child is to their parent. No matter how long we have with you in life form, its just not enough. I guess we all can be a bit greedy, not wanting to share with the man responsable for placing us here. Reading the report has made it soo real for me, hard to understand how it could have been allowed! You will still be a wonderful father to belly butt, the best one there is, always with her. This site will go on forever and she will get to see how much you are loved and thought of. Selma, John , Bean, Heather, Johnny.....love you guys. Its all gonna work out. Im always here for every-one of you anytime day or nite. Just a call away! See you at the crossroad Bobbo!   Close

In Loving Memory of Bobby  / Katie Tolliver (Friend)

    Lord,
  
      Make me a instrument of your peace,
      Where there is hatred, let me sow your love:
      Where there is injury, pardon.
      Where there is doubt, faith.
      Where there is despair, hope.
      Where there is darkness, light.
      Where there is sadness, joy.

      Grant that I may not so much seek
      to be consoled, as to console,
      to be understood as to understand
      to be loved as to love,
      for it is in giving that we recieve,
      it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
      and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

    Live well Bobby, we all be together again someday.
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Kinds words and prayers  / Angelica Bravo (Cousin to Bolo Bravo )

Thank you Selma for your kind words and candles. I noticed you on my cousins site before and wondered who you were. I will forever keep your family and son in my prayers and I hope that one day we can all meet up in heaven. This is something that has provided some comfort to those in our family which I'm sure you've seen on Bolo's site www.bolo.memory-of.com (feel free to visit anytime). But I would like to share it with you and your family as well.
To those I love and those who love me

Now that I am gone, release me let me go

I have so many things to see and do

You must not tie yourself to me with tears

Instead be happy that we had so many years

I gave you my love and you can only guess

How much you gave me back in happiness

I thank you for the love you each have shown

But now it's time I traveled on alone

So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must

Then let your grieve be comforted by trust

It is only for a while that we must part,

So bless the memories within your heart

I will not be far away, for life goes on

So if you need me, call and I will come

Though you cannot see or touch me, I will be near

All my love around you soft and clear

And when you must come this way alone

I will greet you with a smile and say,

"Welcome Home!"

(Author Unkown)

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Thanks for your kindness  / Jenny Voss (William Dailey's Cousin )
Selma and family, Thank u for all your kind words on my cousin Will's website. You are a very special woman to go on all the websites and help console others who are going through what you are!! If you ever need someone to talk to email me!! Your family is in my prayers! Close

Oh Sabrina..  / Gitta Brink
Sabrina,
   Thank you for visiting Jason's site. I checked out your son's site and I am so sorry. I am in deep pain but I cannot even imagine yours. I think having a child murdered is worse than having a child die in an accident. Both are senseless but someone actually took your son's life. How awful that is. I will pray for you and your family. I am almost 20 months out and I still have a deep, awful pain every single day. I wish for the life that I used to have. This world has failed me but the next one will not. God Bless you, dear mom.  Gitta Close

my poor baby pomc  / Mommy
my poor baby boy we got the report back today bobby you didnt need to die that way i hate sari more and more every day today more because if she dont go to that house you would still be here. i hate kevin for shooting him like he did he didnt need to shoot you. i wish they live in hell.and hope when they close there eyes they see you laying on the floor. bobby i love and i am so sorry you died like that baby i miss you more every day Close

A MOTHER  / Shelley Brown (a grieving mother )
To the family of BOBBO, I am so sorry for everything that you have had to bear I am one person that will listen to you cry, I will listen to you yell I will hear the hurt in your heart because I know what its like to lose a son, On 4/13/05 my son Raland Brown was taken from me they say he did it himself and this mother knows differently. I ask myself everyday How does a mother live without her son and brother or sister g one without someone theyve known and loved all their lives how does a father get up in the morning and Im still waiting for the Answers. It will be 3 months and It hurts BAD but the only thing that I have is to know that one day God will let me die to be with him, So I say to the family NEVER FORGET YOUR PRECIOUS BOBBO BECAUSE I KNOW HE IS WITH YOU, surround yourself with people that love you and love him. My prayers are with you. Close

To your family  / Terrie
Bobby,
I just wanted to let you know that I think you and Brian must have already met.  You both saw the pain and tears and said that our familys needed to come together and support one another.  I promise I will do whatever I can.  If they need someone to listen to them or to share a tear.  Brian was a wonderful young man and I can tell you were also.  Your family misses you so much.  Brian's dad come across this in a book and I wanted to share it with your family.
Elisabeth Kubler Ross
    The most beautiful people are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.  These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern.  Beautiful people do not just happen.

  Your family are beautiful people.  I know you and Brian are watching over us! Close

r.i.p / Lianne Bishop (passer - by )
im sorry to hear about ur loss i was just passing by and thought i would pay my respects ive just lost a good friend of mine, jus remember that god only takes the good ones x x x
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