pomc / Mommy
bobbo mommy went to a meeting today it was for mom and dad like me. it help the people are great they are in the same boat bobby i told modesty that you are in heaven she asked why i was crying and if my heart hurts i told her yes we sew a star and her and aaron was sending you kisses bobbo i miss you more and more every day Close

to those who loved bobbo  / Sabrina
To those I love and those who love me Now that I am gone, release me let me go I have so many things to see and do You must not tie yourself to me with tears Instead be happy that we had so many years I gave you my love and you can only guess How much you gave me back in happiness I thank you for the love you each have shown But now it's time I traveled on alone So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must Then let your grieve be comforted by trust It is only for a while that we must part, So bless the memories within your heart I will not be far away, for life goes on So if you need me, call and I will come Though you cannot see or touch me, I will be near All my love around you soft and clear And when you must come this way alone I will greet you with a smile and say, "Welcome Home!" Close

this poem is from terry from pomc  / Sabrina
Please Don't

Please,don't ask me if I am over it yet.
I'll never be over it

Please, don't tell me he is in a better place.
He isn't here with me.

Please, don't say at least he isn't suffering.
I haven't come to terms with why he had to suffer at all.

Please, don't tell me you know how I feel. Unless you have lost a child.

Please, don't ask me if I feel better.
Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up.

Please, don't tell me at least you had him for 21 years.
What year would you choose to have your child die?

Please, don't tell me that God never gives us more then we can bear.
Please, just say you are sorry.
Please, just say you remember my child, if you do.
Please, let me talk about my child.
Please, mention my child's name.
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pomc / Sabrina
bobbo we went to the parents of murdered children meeting today and there were so many there goin through what we are and we are greatful for them! they told mamma there are there for her if she needs to talk and mamma really needs that right now!! well baby things are lookin better it wil all turn out ok i think !! it still seem slike a bad dream and 1 day im gonna wake up but i dont see that happening! my anger due to this over welms me !! there is so much hatred in my heart for so many people right now! but god will be the judge and jury in the end and the ones that wronged you will pay for there part in this! i love you my sweet baby brother !! and in you memory we are going to become active in the pomc meetings and we are gonna keep goin!! Close

blessed / Aunt Arlene
I've been to many funeral some young and some old, some didn't have many friends or family, I'm glad Bobby was blessed with such a huge family that loved him and so many friends that will miss him. Close

We Are Not Alone  / Pam Dobyns (friend)
I want to thank you for visiting Matthew's site.I too am sure he and Bobbo  are great buddies.Since Matt left i have felt so alone but the scriptures say the lord is always with us.Feel free to comtact me anytime.I need your thoughts too.Sincerely, Pam Close

i'm so sorry  / Danielle Cupic (friend)
To the Flynn family:  I truly am sorry for your loss and only wish that it never would have happened.  I couldn't believe it when I heard the news.  The few times that I did share with Bobbo were truly happy times and I only wish that I could have gotten to know him better.  I'll never forget the last time I seen him which was in wal-mart with his daughter.  He looked so happy and my heart goes out to that beautiful child of his who now has to grow up without a daddy.  All I have to say about the people who are at fault for this tragedy is that they will one day get what they deserve.  R.I.P. Bobbo Close

Thank you  / Leigh Farrell Dad
how lovely it was to see what you wrote on my sons site,it makes you feel warm knowing that people know the pain that we share ,and how kind words can mean so much ,as with all the beautiful memorials youre son bobbo sounds like he was a son to be proud of,which i'm sure you are .
Take heart knowing that there are people out there who do care and as hard as it is ...know they are in a better place with no pain...R.I.P. Bobbo  Close

be free  / Mommy
bobbo today i was outside looking in the sky and the bird was fling so free bobbo you soul is free to fly please just look out for your dad and belly butt and jabek the kids love you and i know they dont unstanded why you are not there to take care of them please keep your arms out for the baby
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pain / Mommy
to my sweet baby boy i was sitting here thinhing about you i rember the day we were talking about if it hurds to die. and i told you no. and when i was working if i would leave the old people die alone.and i told you no. i would hold their hand until they were gone.bobbo i know how scared you was to die sweet baby boy i think that is why god took you home the way he did no pain or no tear. my sweet baby i am so sorry i was not with you the last min of your life. my heart is broke.they said it takes time but it will be broke untill i am with you my sweet baby boy. i will alway i love Close

Now our children take care of us  / Joyce Noppers (mother to mother )

Mrs Flynn
Thank you for leaving me such kind words. Bobbo looks so much like a friend of Cory's. In this world, I am almost sure they would have hung out. We grieve because we must, we know no other way. Our hearts have been ripped out it feels like. But we do go on, and I know that it is our children who give us the strength along with God. We were lucky to have had our boys for the time we did, some never even get to know their babies. But I am so greedy and want more. I wish for you and yours all the best and I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. Keep those memories alive. I know I will. Email me if you like, if you need to talk or just let it out. Thanks again and stay strong.

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Hoping you find peace  / Melissa Smith (grieving Mom)

You did not merely die, but you were murdered,
And so my anger magnifies my grief.
Love and hate are clean and filthy water
Spilling through my veins like hell unleashed.

I would but mourn, but vengeance clouds my sorrow;
I would but kill, but love finds there no peace;
I would but weep, but weeping is a river
That flows with vast intention to the sea.

I must, I must confess that I have lost you,
And find a place to plant my plucked-out love,
And look to justice, not revenge, to free you
To dance again with joy where loved ones live.

Thinking of you, Hope this poem helps, from one grieving mom to another.( Blake Moore's mom)

http://blakemoore.memory-of.com

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our angels  / Michelle Jabs (friend)
Thank you Mrs. flynn for visiting my sons site. Sorry for your loss, I know the pain you are feeling.As I read the tributes about your son I see he was a special person.  Bobbo is up there right now taking care of my son.  My son is a little angel and bonno is up there teaching him how to fly.  Its so hard to get over the pain but it helps to know that someone is watchingout for my son.  It helps to know that  our sons are with God and they will fell no more pain. Thanks for visiting my sons site its nice to know that people care and know that there are others who feel our pain. May God bless our children Close

ONLY GOD KNOWS  / MARILYN HINDS (A FRIEND OF JESUS )
HELLO MS FLYNN THANK FOR VISITING MY SON WEBSITE I KNOW IT MUST BE HARD FOR YOU TOO AS YOU KNOW DWAYNE ALSO IS GONE DUE TO THIS COLD AND CRUEL WORLD THAT WE LIVE IN OUR SONS ARE  SPECIAL TO US  MOTHERS WHO WOULD HAVE KNOW OUR SONS WOULD BE GONE SO SOON IT BREAKS MY HEART IT TOOK ME SIX MONTHS TO STOP THE TEAR FROM FLOWING NOW I AM OK I CAN GET THROUGH THE DAYS AND NIGHT OK GOD KNOWS I MISSED HIM GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR LOVE ONES THE HINDS FAMILY.  THE BIBLE ---- REVELATION 21:4 AND HE SHALL WIPE AWAY ALL TEARS FROM THEIR EYES; AND THERE SHALL BE NO MORE DEATH, NEITHER SORROW, NOR CRYING, NEITHER SHALL THERE BE ANY MORE PAIN: FOR THE FORMER THINGS ARE PASSED AWAY. PRAISE GOD  Close

Still thinking about you  / Katie Tolliver (Friend)

Bobby,

    Well I hope your 4th was the best ever, I sorta know that it was.  It's hard for us to understand just how perfect your life is now, to try to rationalize the fact there is NO hurt, pain, hate or anger, only happiness.
    I still think of you often, now I smile at the memories more than I cry.  Although the tears fall at times, I am trying to understand the bigger plan.
    I know you family still feels much pain, and that too saddens me.  I wish there was a way to help make things easier for ALL of them.  What I do know is that if you allow it to the hate will consume your soul (My family has been there).  It is way to much energy to waste on such trash.  When Bub was murdered, I spent countless hours plotting on how to avenage his death, and short of taking another life, found that only time could heal that wound.  But with time, I found that loving Bub, and spending more of my time doing what I could do to preserve his memory was much more rewarding, and made me love him even more.  There is still much hate in my heart for his murdered, but I try not to give him the satisfaction of thinking about what a rotten piece of shit he is.  He is not worthy of my time or my thoughts.  So now that is what I have begun to try to do with the trash that took your life.  You are so MUCH more important than them, I would rather fill my thoughts of you, to make me smile, than allow them to breed even more hate in my heart.  I believe in karma, as well as a higher power, I can only trust that in time (more sooner than later) they will ALL get theirs.  In the meantime I will keep you and Bub in my heart and thoughts, and smile for you made the world a better place.  Bobby, I have not heard ONE person say ONE bad thing about you, that truly is special.  What an impact you had on the lives you've touched.  What beautiful memories you have left for us to cherish........Thanx
Take care of your family, for I know now that heavens take care of you, and so many others that I miss.  Funny people talk about wishing they could see you one more time, or talk to you one more time, I see you and talk to you more now than I did when you traveled the earth.  I still wish you were here in the physical form, but you are not gone from my life, not now, or ever.

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                                                                      Katie

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1 month  / Mommy
bobbo it has been a month sense you came in the door with that big smile yelling momma bobbo i have not seen belly butt i hope she is ok bobbo she was your hole life. bobbo i hope sari close her eye every nite and sees you laying there i hate her more then words can say bobbo kevin is going to walk . and i hope sari and kevin walk right in to hell and that is too good for them bobbo i love you and miss you more every day i wish i was there to tell you goodbye my blue bird is outside every day i know it is you please look over belly butt and jakeb they love you bobbo and you eddie and jemery better be good . i love you all Close

You Are Not Alone  / Ferguson Vivian
Selma , I to feel  your pain for as you know i lost my son Lionel on November 26,2004. Pray and believe GOD is our only strength and our might. If you want to talk email  me at  vee4bronxaol.com. Close

broken heart  / Mommy
bobbo it has been 4 weeks tonite you went home bobbo i still cant beleave you are gone tonite i have aaron and modesty it is the first time i have had they all nite bobbo it is like it is a dream we will wake up and you will be with me bobbo you are my baby you was going to take care of me and daddy when we was old but now you are gone . bobbo you was going to have 5 kids for me but you have one that will not know her daddy just thing people tell her she will see you in her dream you had so many dream for her bobbo i know how you loved belly and jakeb it hurts more and more as the day go bye bobbo i was not there to hold you your last min of your life i could not tell you i loved you or kissed you or hugged you goodbye baby i love you more then life my heart is broke and it will be broken for until i am with you
my sweet baby boy i hope the 2 will burn in hell for taking you away from me
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COMFORT IN THE BLUE BIRD  / AUNT ARLENE
selma told me of the blue bird that came and sat with her on her front porch the day they laid Bobby to rest, and that same bird came and sat on Sabrina's truck for the longest time, well I visited selma several days ago and I could hardly believe my eyes, that same blue bird that she found comforting was there sitting on a rock in her driveway. If there ever was a sign. I believe that bird is around to give comfort and peace to his family and to let them know even though he's gone, he will always be watching over them. Close

I Know how hard.  / Rose Baldwin (Friend)
I wish there was something I could tell you to help ease the pain, but there is nothing.  My prayers go out for you and your family.  Robert sounds like a wonderful person.  Your Son was taken  on the day my son would have been 14yrs8mos old.  I miss my son very much.  I am not sure what to say because I do know exactly what you are feeling.  Every emotion possible.  Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.  All you can do is one day at a time.  You never get over the lose, you learn to cope.                  Take Care of YourSelf. Close